How to
Impress Boys in Chatting?
Every relationship or Date is a followup from
a chat, isn’t it? Well, chats are a good way to impress people they have
interest in and interesting chats take the conversation forward. So, one should
definitely make sure that the conversation is amazing such that the other
person is driven towards it. A text is interesting only when the other person
can’t help but reply to it. Getting a text ignored is definitely not an option.
Where can a chat be initiated?
Chats can be initiated over social networking
sites as well as dating sites. It is very casual and common for girls to
receive random message requests on their social media. But , are they good
enough to be replied to? A message request is good enough when it is not
creepy. If you choose not to reply to a text and still receive many other
messages in the same conversation, it is not a good conversation to reply to.
If you like any of those profiles , then you can reply to their
conversation and take the conversation
forward. What if there aren’t any message requests or interesting follow
requests you wanna respond to but you have some other guy you want to talk to!
Go ahead and initiate the conversation but don’t sound desperate. Guys like
that!
Statistics -
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According to the okcupid dating
site , men send messages first to initiate a conversation.
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14 percent of girls on tinder
receive unique messages from their tinder matches.
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A majority of 36 percent of girls
receive just Hi and Hello messages. Many girls also receive messages saying
“whatsup”
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The rest 50 percent of girls do
not receive any messages at all.
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Guys like girls to make a first
move
Guys think that they always have to initiate
the conversations and get ignored eventually. So if a girl does things which
guys initiate every time , that is an ice breaking move, girls!
Let’s look at few pointers on how to impress
boys in chatting -
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Take a look at his interests to have an interesting conversation - well, ladies, it is time to use all your stalking skills to dig out
information on the person you want to have a chat with. It always works. Guys
like personalised conversations on the things they love to do. Well, if the
same thing clicks with your interests , then
there’s no going back ! First take a look at their bio, and know about
their interests. bio ‘s and profile are the best way to know whether the person
resonates with you or not. Well , if you both have mutual friends and you are
comfortable enough to share the information you have about the guy and ask more
things , you can definitely use it as an advanced technique to get to know more
about the person. After you have information on the guy, drive the conversation
accordingly and it will definitely impress him. Just keep one thing in mind ,
don’t make the conversation about the interests too obvious. Try to mix it up
with the conversation you are already having.
It should feel like it coincidentally came up in the conversation.
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Start with a good opening line - This line should be good enough to drive the
guy to reply to your text. You might get many opening line options on the
internet but selecting the perfect one is a big deal. You can create your own
as well such that it is not the same and common as other people. People are
tired of receiving the same opening lines again and again because these lines
keep on circulating within different conversations. So how to select a perfect
opening line? Well, you need to make sure that it is simple and clear! Do not
confuse the person with twisted lines because at the end of the day you want a
proper reply and not something like “ hey, I didn’t get ya?” so ladies! Keep it simple and smart! Good
opening lines are great conversation starters!
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Praise the guy to draw all his attention -
well, who doesn’t like to get praised? Everybody likes it. Some show and some
don't. Praise is not a thing to be reserved just for girls. Praise the man you
are chatting with. Obviously there was something which drew you towards him.
Confess that in a nice and gentle way. That’s the key to go! Talk about his
display picture , a good quality about him , maybe talk about how good he looks
, his hairstyle or if he has a pet , talk about that as well. Praising a person
cannot be taught. It should come directly from your heart. So tell him whatever
you like about him but make sure not to sound too cheesy in the beginning
itself. Draw his attention towards you. Once he gets hooked to the
conversation, you can derive that the conversation is going crazy in a positive
way.
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Talk gently and very sweetly to him - guys
like gentle conversations. Yeah, they say, they don’t like extra drama but a
little bit of attention is all they want. Make him feel that you are close to
him and talking to him is your comfort zone. Guys like it when they get
attention from girls especially when girls start the conversation. It is
definitely a turn on for them. Being arrogant, rough and full of attitude won’t
give you the desired attention from him you are looking for. So girls, be sweet
and gentle when you talk to them. If you see that the conversation is driven
somewhere else where you do not want to go, Creep alert! stop that conversation
and step out right away.
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Ask things about him such that he feels you want to know him better - before I elaborate this point, I would like to put forward that
Don’t be too personal on the questions you ask. Be limited to his birthday
maybe or things he likes. Talking about past relationships in the very first
conversation is a complete thumbs down and talking about family also is a
complete no. If he starts a conversation regarding any of these then it’s fine,
you need not initiate a conversation on these topics because you never know
what the person went through in the past. Instead, talking about his hobbies,
schooling, hometown , food , drinks, music, artists, books etc. make the
conversation interesting and do not limit it.Make use of all the stalking you
did on the person. Once the conversation gets boring and you don’t know what to
ask each other, the fire cools down and becomes the end of the conversation.
You need to keep the conversation going!
Guys get impressed whenever a girl approaches
them , talks to them or asks them out on a date or invites them to talk over a
call. Guys like to experience things which they always do for girls. If a girl
does a thing which guys do generally, then they definitely get impressed. So
make sure to read the points and do some healthy stalking online (do not be crazy enough to follow the person) and you
are good to go! Talk about things you know and confess if you do not know
anything and ask them to talk about it more. This way you do not make a fool
out of yourself plus make the guy feel that you are interested in his talk, which
is good enough to impress him! Well, ladies, go ahead and fire up that
conversation with your loved one!
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