How To Use a Condom-A Guide for Adults.
It's
easy to complain about condoms, claiming that they're inconvenient or dull
sensitivity, but the truth is that they may be a lot more enjoyable than most
people believe. This is your guide to selecting the best condom for you.
Condom Basics
Let's
start with a quick overview. Condoms are used to prevent pregnancy and sexually
transmitted diseases (STIs). Latex and polyurethane condoms are the two most
common types. Condoms made of animal skin (usual lamb) are also available,
but they do not protect against sexually transmitted infections. Condoms are
available in many different shapes, sizes, and materials. They can either be
lubricated or not. Spermicide is also found in some condoms.
How to Put One On
If
you're new to condom use or haven't had much experience with them, I recommend
trying to put them on your own first to get a feel for how they operate.
Repeat the procedure until it becomes second nature. It may appear to be a
waste of condoms, but not having anxiety when with a partner will make it all
worthwhile.
Remove
the condom from its wrapping first. One of the most common
blunders is putting a condom on backward and then discovering that it won't
unroll.
Play
around with the rim to make sure you know which way it goes.
Put
a few drops of water- or silicone-based lubrication within the
condom's tip to make condom use much more comfortable. (Never use condoms with
oil-based lubes!)
Pinch
the tip of the condom to make room for your penis or toy, then place it over
your penis or toy. If you're not yet circumcised, gently push your foreskin
back before putting the condom on. (This allows your foreskin to move freely
within the condom.) Roll the condom all the way down to the base of your penis
or toy with one hand while holding the condom's tip.
Find Your Size
Condoms
come in a variety of sizes. The belief that all condoms are the same is the
most common condom myth, and it's one of the main reasons why so many people
dislike using them. As a result, when I came across the brand Lucky Bloke a few
years ago, I was ecstatic. They've made it their job to assist people in
selecting the best condom for their needs.
Lucky
Bloke offers a simple size technique for toilet paper rolls. Fill an empty
toilet paper roll with your erect penis or sex toy. Look for condoms in the
tight-fit category if you have excess circumference. According to Lucky
Bloke, approximately 35% of men fall into this category. Look for medium or
regular-size condoms if the toilet paper roll fits perfectly. 50 percent of
guys fall into this category. If it's a tight fit, you'll need a large condom.
About 15% of men fall into this category. You may also get a sampler pack
including small, medium, and big sizes if you're not sure what size to get. If
you're unsure whether you're on the smaller or larger side, check out their
Perfect Fit Finder sample packs (use the same link as above), which come in
small to medium and medium to large sizes.
Remember
that condom sizing is similar to garment sizing in that it's tempting to grab
the size you desire or think you should be. However, you'll feel a lot more at
ease if you select the size that best fits your body.
Experiment With Extras
For
added excitement, condoms can be ribbed or studded. Ultrathin condoms, which
promise more sensation than conventional condoms, are available. Thin condoms,
contrary to popular belief, are less likely to break. Condoms with extra room
around the head are known as "pleasure fit." (Some men find that having
more room makes them more sensitive.) I strongly advise you to take a number of
various possibilities for a test drive. Themed trail packs are available in
both physical and online sex shops, such as Condomania and Condom Depot. Going
through so many various condom alternatives might make condom use more
enjoyable, and you're more likely to select a brand or design that you like.
Avoid using Desensitizing, Arousing, or Flavored Condoms
Condoms
prepared with desensitizing gels are also available. Some condoms, on the other
hand, claim to offer "arousing" properties, such as heat or chilling
sensations. There are also flavored condoms, which are commonly used during
blowjobs. In general, I'm not a big fan of these kinds of condoms because they
can include chemicals that I don't want near my most sensitive body areas. They
can induce side effects, such as skin irritations. If you want to give one of
these a shot, make sure your spouse is on board.
Use Condoms on Toys
Cleaning
up using condoms on toys is quicker and easier. In a given sex session, you may
also swiftly swap out condoms to safely utilize the device on a different
partner. When utilizing a toy, you might not think about sizing, but it's a
good idea. If you have a condom that fits your toy properly, you'll be less
likely to have slippage.
Female Condoms
A
female condom resembles a male condom; however, it features two soft, flexible
rings instead of one. To insert the condom into the vaginal canal, you squeeze
the inner ring. The condom is held in place by the inner ring, which pops up
around the cervix. The outer ring adheres to the labia's outer edge. Condoms
for women can also be used anally. Only the inner ring needs to be removed
before installation.
The
female condom has the advantage of being able to be inserted up to four hours
before sex. Making small talk on your dinner date with a condom hopefully
poised in your vagina may seem a little strange, but at least you won't have to
worry about fumbling with a wrapper.
The
FC2 Female Condom and the Pasante are the most widely available. Both are more
costly than condoms for men.
Men
who suffer from performance anxiety or who dislike using condoms, in general,
may find that having intercourse with a woman who is wearing a female condom is
particularly pleasurable. You won't have to worry about trying to put on a
condom while praying that your erection doesn't disappear. You also don't have
to be concerned about the condom sliding off if your erection fails halfway
through. Some males prefer the female condom to the male condom since it does
not have the constraining tightness of a male condom.
Condom Care
Because
condoms do expire, always check the expiration date before using one. If it's
past its expiration date, it's more likely to break.
Keep
them out of your wallet. They'll become overheated and are more likely to
break. It's fine to keep a condom in your wallet or pocket before a date, but
not for more than a day.
Always
apply lubricant. This is a step that many people overlook, yet it can make a
significant difference in the overall experience. It's slicker and feels closer
to condom-free sex. Condoms can also be kept from breaking with the use of
lube.
When
you're done using your condom, make sure to keep your grip on the condom's base
while you draw it out! Otherwise, it may fall off and become lodged in your
companion. (If this happens, talk to your doctor about switching to Plan B and
getting tested for STIs.) If you wish to avoid spillage, tie it in a knot and
throw it away in a dustbin. Don't throw it in a toilet.