A Guide for Dating in Mumbai.
The
hardest aspect of going on a date, in my opinion, is actually finding one.
Where
hasn't the contemporary man (or woman) gone in search of one? He's been to
every party in town and consumed every alcoholic beverage available. He's gone
after his friends' friends, their friends' friends, and even friends of
friends' friends' friends. He's on Tinder now (along with Bumble, Hinge, Ok!
Cupid, and so on), but swiping left and right isn't working for him.
Finding
a date, especially in a city like Mumbai, is like trying to find a road without
potholes: you believe you know one but you don't.
So,
what's a person to do? For starters, don't be concerned. Second, put the phone
down. Finding a date may appear to be a difficult chore for some, but it does
not have to be. The opportunities have always been there; unfortunately, you've
been glued to your phone the entire time.
Whatever
anyone says, none of those interchangeable dating apps is going to bring you
your next date.
Yes,
there are a plethora of profiles to peruse, and when we're rushing from one
meeting to the next or spending most of our time caught in horrendous Mumbai
traffic, it's only natural to turn to the ease of a dating app. You might be
anywhere, and there's a world of possibilities waiting for you on your phone -
all you need is an internet connection. It's also effective. It is for the majority
of people. We all know a slew of folks who have found whatever they were
looking for on these apps. Is it time for a fast sack roll? Check. Is there a
date for a party? Yes, of course. Is there anyone you'd like to have a drink
with? Yes. Is there a connection? That, as well.
But
you're not one of them, are you? You're either done with these apps or refuse
to give them a chance. That's all right. Let no one persuade you otherwise. If
you don't spend all of your free time swiping left, right, and center, you're
not missing out on anything. Some folks simply desire a genuine connection - a
dialogue that takes place offline and isn't laced with emojis.
So,
where should you go on a date? Is there even a spot where you can locate
someone in Mumbai's busy city? It appears that it does.
Where
in Mumbai should you go to find a date?
1. Gym
You
never know when you'll run into a date while on the treadmill.
A
gym (or a yoga/pilates/kick-boxing studio) is a terrific place to meet someone,
whether you're a fitness freak or not. For starters, you've already discovered
something in common with the other person: a shared interest in fitness is a
wonderful ice-breaker and discussion starter. Furthermore, unlike in a bar,
conversations in a gym are sober and not fueled by an unwarranted adrenaline
boost from imbibing excessive amounts of alcohol. Most essential, we're our
natural selves in the gym, sweating and panting. You don't hide behind our best
clothes or exhibit our best selves; you see each other for who you truly are.
Where:
Here's a good list of gyms in Mumbai that you should go to. We recommend that
you try Reset in Reclamation, Bandra (West). Anytime Fitness is also a terrific
option if you're searching for something more budget-friendly.
2. Music Concerts
There's
sure to be energy, enthusiasm, and electric chemistry in a packed stadium
gyrating to the same melody.
It's
time you got over your obsession with bars and nightclubs as their places. If you
want to date, and want some music and alcohol on the side, a music concert might
be your answer. Whoever you meet there will share the same taste in music as
you and that is very important for some people. Also, the atmosphere at any
concert is so intoxicating, that it's way easier to strike up a conversation.
Besides, everyone's got their guards down and the mood is good - basically, the chances of you being turned down are relatively lower.
Where:
The Jio Gardens, MMRDA, and Mahalaxmi Race Course are all excellent locations
for most concerts in Mumbai. DY Patil Stadium is as well. When it comes to
upcoming huge events in the city, one of the most anticipated is Rihanna's
visit in October - yeah, you read that correctly.
3. Art Events
Yes,
they're specialized, but that's precisely why you should attend one of them.
First
and foremost, you do not need to be an art expert to attend these events. Trust
your own capacity to appreciate good and abstract work, and you might just find
yourself in a conversation with someone who appreciates your interest in
something off the beaten path. Because these events attract a select group of
people, you can expect both substance and style. It will also be easier for you
to strike up a conversation here if you simply talk about art.
Where
to go: The Bombay Art Society in Bandra is the place to go. In the city's Kala
Ghoda district, there's also the Jehangir Art Gallery. The National Gallery of Modern
Art in Colaba, of course.
4. Plays
If
there was ever a prize for the most underappreciated date spot, the theatre
would have easily won it.
We
all enjoy watching films on a large screen. We all enjoy watching Netflix and
unwinding. However, how many of us set aside time to watch a play? Have you
ever seen a play? No one is raising their hands for this one, so don't bother
looking around. The theatre isn't boring; a good play may be just as
entertaining as a movie or a performance. It also has an edge over the other
two in that it allows you to socialize with the city's most advanced mines. We
recommend coming to a play if you want to have meaningful talks and challenge
your thinking. The pre-show area is an excellent opportunity to pick up a
conversation with someone, and ideally, by the end of the event, your own actions
will have taken off.
Where:
The legendary Prithvi Theatre is located in Mumbai; if you haven't visited it
yet, we recommend that you do so as soon as possible. Other alternatives
include the Royal Opera House and the NCPA.
5. Walking Tours
Your
next date is only a few steps away; all you have to do now is take them.
Please
accept my apologies for waxing poetic, but walking tours are, without a doubt,
the under-utilized instrument of modern-day dating. Walking tours are becoming
increasingly popular among the young and happening who want to learn more about
their own city. They are no longer limited to tourists. There are tours devoted
to food, shopping, wildlife, history, and just about anything else you can
think of. How do they assist you in getting a date? Needless to say, all that
walking and exploring will provide you with a wide range of topics to discuss. Furthermore,
the nature of these tours allows for a lot of interaction amongst the
volunteers, so you won't have to worry about being the first to make a move.
Where:
While the classic Dharavi Tour is popular, we recommend the Mumbai Night Tour
instead. The Market Tour is a fantastic idea if you enjoy shopping. The Bandra
Walk is the same way. The Mumbai Pub Crawl is the greatest option for
individuals who can't get enough of partying.