A 28-year-old woman who is bedridden due to a fist-sized cyst waits almost 6 months to have it removed.
After
waiting nearly six months to have an ovarian cyst the size of her fist removed,
a woman has expressed her agony.
Natalie,
28, claims that the agony was so severe that it rendered her bedridden and
unable to work.
The
freelancer, a native of London, was diagnosed with anaemia as a teenager after
experiencing terrible period pains and heavy bleeding.
When
she received a two-year offer to relocate to Canada in 2019, she chose to
switch from the combination pill to a hormonal IUD.
Natalie
said she chose this route because it would be the simplest because she didn't
know how the procedure would work while she was away.
I
used to experience stomach pain that felt like cramps, but I ignored it,
Natalie said to the Mirror.
I
believe that we ignore that suffering either because we are encouraged to do so
or because we are afraid of being called overly dramatic.
That
discomfort would come and go every few months, but by the middle of 2020 it was
daily, and I was having trouble climbing the stairs to get to work.
It
wasn't until my then-roommate and partner persuaded me to visit the ER that I
went and realised there was a problem.
In
October 2020, she received an ultrasound from the medical team, which they told
her will be followed up by an MRI to confirm the appearance of a mass on her
ovary.
I
was going to the ER all the time, and they only ever gave me extra-strength
paracetamol and sent me home," Natalie recalled.
Since
there are no opioids available in Canada, I had to use a stronger Ibuprofen. I
later discovered that doing so caused my stomach lining to erode.
In
November 2020, she had an MRI, which revealed that she had a cyst with a
diameter of eight centimetres.
Natalie
stated that the agony forced her to stop working in October, but the hospital
didn't plan to remove the cyst until January.
She
said: It was a full lifestyle change throughout the entire time I stopped
working; I could hardly leave the house and couldn't stay up for extended
periods of time.
The
possibility of losing one of my ovaries was suddenly tough to hear because I am
open to having children. Every time I went to the hospital, they told me they
may take the ovary and you can function on one.
Her
visa was about to expire at the end of December, but the cyst surgery still
hadn't been planned.
In
the hopes of having better luck with the NHS, she made the decision to relocate
back to London.
Non-life-threatening
procedures had been postponed because of Covid-19 throughout this time.
Nicola
said: I can't sleep right now due to the discomfort, and I had to be mindful of
when I took my medications. I feel awful.
"It
was a never-ending circle of dull anguish. I used to be extremely active and
ride my bike all over, but now that I was in pain, I didn't even have the
motivation to do anything."
She
went on: "I couldn't work from home, not even for my mental health; I was
in too much pain.
I
had to give in to my suffering and my body, but I also had to follow what my
body was doing as it experienced a conflict between my physical and mental
needs. There was nothing I could do, I felt that.
Natalie
didn't feel heard until she saw a specialist at the Chelsea and Westminster
Hospital.
When
Natalie underwent a second MRI, it had expanded to 10 centimetres.
In
March 2021, Natalie underwent surgery to have the cyst removed, but things
didn't go according to plan.
"It
was supposed to be keyhole surgery, but it ended up being the equivalent of a
c-section," Natalie said.
She
was thankful doctors were able to remove the cyst while leaving her ovary in
even though she didn't learn about the c-section until she woke up. In July
2021, Natalie was able to go back to work.
Natalie
is still healing from the procedure over a year later.
I
still can't be as physically active as I once was, but I was able to resume
working, so I looked at that as the silver lining, said, Natalie.
She
believes that by sharing her experience, others, particularly women, would be
inspired to stand up for themselves.
Nicola
said: "I can relate to the medical professionals because they had a lot
going on, we were experiencing a pandemic, and they were up against a lot of
obstacles.
But
there are a lot of things that could have gone wrong with this problem; you
can't just treat it with two paracetamol.
After
telling my tale numerous times and receiving the same response, "Well,
there is nothing we can do," it would have been wonderful to have some
consolation.
When
I was told that I would be alright because I have another cyst, I expressed my
concern that the size of my cyst and the discomfort it was creating might have
been obstructing my ovary's blood flow.
She
went on: "I was mentally exhausted by the experience because it was so
continuing and solitary despite the fact that I had people in my life to
support me.
Between
October and July, a lot of what happened to me seemed to have blended into one
day. I was unable to follow a schedule and was really discouraged by what was
taking place.
"I
was coping with issues related to my mental health; they kept happening. I got
through it either by resiliency or being blissfully naive.
And
I'm not sure if I've had enough time to think about the truly terrifying
aspects of this event.
"No
one in this world can know your body as you do," Natalie continued.
"So, take the time to listen and if it doesn't seem right, pursue
it."
It
is preferable for it to be nothing or something solved than anything severe
because they won't make a big deal out of it if you don't.
I
think this is particularly for women. I discovered that a lot of ladies have
experienced something comparable and felt ignored.
I
would advise you not to accept a negative response.
"My
life has changed so much since July 2020 to today, and it's terrible to realise
when there is something you can no longer do, but you still need to grab the
day," the author said.
According
to a recent survey commissioned by the contraceptive pill Hana, 44% of women
pick their form of contraception, so they don't have to go to a doctor's visit,
which is similar to Natalie's explanation for why she changed her method of
contraception.
A
sample size of women aged 18 to 45 was included in the poll.
"This
research demonstrates that women are feeling secure in themselves, they are
embracing their sexual impulses, and they are clear on their future
aspirations," Alison Slingsby from Hana stated. Their sexual identities,
freedoms, and life choices all depend on contraception.