Should I call it quits, get engaged, or continue dating?
What to do if you're not sure if this is it.
What
should you do if you've been seeing someone for a while but aren't sure if
they're the one for you? Do you end the relationship, get hitched, or just keep
dating and see where it goes? When there is no simple solution, how do you
decide what to do?
Continue
dating if you have any doubts. When unsure, leave. If you're honestly seeking
clarification, you're doing what's best for the relationship, so don't worry
that you could be leading your date on. Give both you and your date the space
and time to clarify your thoughts at your own speed. By doing this, you'll
avoid missing out on what would otherwise turn out to be a beautiful and lasting
relationship.
But
what if you've been dating for a particularly long time and are still unsure?
Decision-making must be examined from the standpoints of your head, body, and
soul.
Your Mind
The
best method to make sense of your thoughts can occasionally be to discuss them
with a dependable friend, mentor, family member, expert, or therapist. You can
obtain clarity and perspective by talking it out. You don't want to be
overwhelmed by too many diverse perspectives, so limit the number of people you
confide in.
Make
sure your mentor doesn't try to dictate your actions or influence your choices.
Your mentor should be assisting you in discovering your own feelings and
thoughts. An excellent mentor will listen most of the time and occasionally ask
some insightful questions. They'll aid you in understanding what you're going
through.
Your Body
Don't
be scared to get in touch with your body and honestly feel your emotions when
assessing your connection. Physical occurrences that can provide you with
further insight into your feelings regarding your partner can be brought on by
feelings.
What
physical cues and body language do you exhibit while you are speaking with,
thinking about, or physically being with your partner? Where are the feelings
coming from, you could ask? If they are unpleasant, are the feelings a result
of what they are doing, possible worry, or something you are subconsciously
holding onto from your past? Consider keeping a diary of your thoughts and
feelings when you go on dates. You can use that as a terrific tool to monitor
your mental and physical well-being.
Soul
The
evaluation process's most intuitive challenge is this one. Mediate in silence
and pay attention to your inner voice. Only you are aware of your desires and
experiences. Not the rest of the world trying to tell you what to do, but you
are the one who needs to be happy. Never allow anyone to suppress your voice.
Self-talk is important.
There
are occasions when you simply require more knowledge and are unable to decide
without specific experiences with your companion. Take your time and date until
you have the knowledge and experiences needed to be confident in your choice.
When
it's time to make a choice, consider your thoughts and feelings on this
relationship with your mentors, as well as your mind, body, and soul.
Additionally, always venture outside if you're unsure. Clarity will emerge at
some point.
I
hope you get the clarity you need to make the best choice with assurance.