What Relationship Exists Between Language and Gender?
One
"becomes a woman" rather than being born a woman, according to Simone
de Beauvoir. We all perform gender roles; it's not something we are born with.
In contrast to sex, gender is a social construct that is created by a variety
of cultural practises or societal norms. Cultures influence and are influenced
by language as a communicative practise. A speaker's knowledge/ability to
produce or recognise meaning is considered their level of linguistic
competence. To make sense, nevertheless, verbal proficiency is insufficient. To
understand, one must be familiar with the social mores of a certain culture.
Language is in many ways a performative act as well because it is so reliant on
the culture around it. Thus, the languages that people speak have an impact on
their genders.
I
want to examine how gender and language are related to one another and how they
influence one another.
In
his article "Language and Woman's Place," linguist Robin Lakoff initiated
the conversation on the subject of gender and language (1972). With the use of
tag questions (isn't it?, am I? ), questioning expressions, or mitigators, he
said that women typically utilise language forms that are inferior to those of
men (sort of, I think). This implies a requirement to acknowledge them or a
presumption that they might be mistaken. Following Lackoff's assertion, there
was a discussion about why women's language has such a subservient character.
Difference and supremacy were the two options.
Men's
language was always the standard because women never had a "room of their
own" to create their own, and as a result, it was seen to be inferior.
The
concept of difference proposed that because men and women were raised in very
different ways, their linguistic forms would naturally diverge. According to
the dominance theory, men and women were subjected to organised discrimination
because of their different speech patterns. This resulted in masculine
domination, which in turn caused men to rule over language. Men's language was
always the standard because women never had a "room of their own" to
create their own, and as a result, it was seen to be inferior. In that regard,
the domination framework contained the different issue.
Both
of these strategies, nevertheless, have been criticised by numerous people. A
feminist linguist named Deborah Cameron contends that most languages are often
male-centric and that terms used by women frequently stray from those that were
"originally" created for men. For instance, the suffix -ess is
typically added to terms like manager and author to make them feminine. This
vocabulary's absence indicates how gendered power dynamics are always used to
define female language in comparison to masculine language.
Women
are also expected to speak more formally and empathically, frequently with
smiles or brief responses. Children's cartoons are one example of this, where
the female characters frequently have a very submissive role to play, apologise
more frequently, and smile a lot.
Women
are also expected to speak more formally and empathically, frequently with
smiles or brief responses. Children's cartoons are one example of this, where
the female characters frequently have a very submissive role to play, apologise
more frequently, and smile a lot. When speaking, they virtually always question
themselves and frequently seek affirmation from the other gender.
Dexter
and Dee Dee, two siblings from the well-known children's animation Dexter's
Laboratory, are portrayed in a fairly stereotyped manner. Dexter, who always
thinks rationally, assumes that his sister Dee Dee wouldn't comprehend his
scientific endeavours. Dee Dee is portrayed as a young, histrionic character
who is continuously curious about what her buttons do. Such representation
typically affects children, both boys and girls, in terms of language use from
a very young age.
Additionally,
men and women communicate differently. According to Bruce Dorval's research on
same-sex interactions, men tend to switch up the discussion more frequently
than women. Women also have a tendency to expand upon themes that have already
been discussed. Other than that, women typically listen to males speak and nod
their agreement with words like "hm" and "yes" to establish
a rapport. This agreement might be interpreted as a show of submission, but
it's really just a way to ponder. Men typically offer rational solutions when
someone tells them their problem, whereas women typically respond more
empathically, according to another finding about the differences. However,
these findings frequently run the risk of essentializing gender norms. However,
it may be claimed that such behaviour is shown since genders are typically
conditioned and as a result are anticipated to respond in a certain manner.
A
few linguists noticed how people of different genders engaged differently on
social media and left different gender markers when speaking in a paper titled,
"Gender in Twitter: Styles, Stances, and Social Networks." For
instance, women frequently prolong their phrases and use more emoticons and
exclamation points in their texts than males do (Hiii, nooooo). The ways that
the genders interact differently demonstrate how differently they express
themselves.
Women-led
protests could be distinguished by the language they used. Women speak
differently than men, thus their protest tactics are less aggressive and more
compassionate, with a strong sense of a collective and community. They
frequently utilise their bodies to communicate, mainly because the vocabulary
that is available to them (which is male-dominated) is sometimes insufficient
to convey their message. For instance, during the 1973 Chipko Movement, a group
of peasant women were photographed hugging trees, and nude Manipuri women
joined demonstrations against the military in response to Manorama's
incarceration rape (2004). Language agency—or lack thereof—has a significant
impact on the tactics used by women in protest.
The
Yellow Wallpaper, a short story by Charlotte Gilman, introduces a fresh
perspective on language and gender issues. The unidentified female protagonist
repeatedly opens a sentence with the line "John says this,"
indicating that she is unable to express her ideas clearly. The dialogue
between men and women in the novel is combative, dominating, and occasionally
dangerous, whereas the dialogue between men and women is cordial, sympathetic,
and consistently supportive of the male viewpoint. The female protagonist has
been forbidden a language to such an extent that it drove her insane before she
discovered an alternative kind of language (she is not permitted to write,
communicate, or even think). The patterns on the yellow wallpaper were used to
represent an alternative language, which could only be understood by the female
lead.
Language
agency is frequently denied to women, and their use of language is consistently
viewed as inferior to that of men. This can be seen in a variety of social practices
and rituals. Thus, it may be said that languages play a significant role in the
construction of gender. Additionally, because language is alive and changing,
it has the power to alter many gender norms.