Changes after losing your virginity or first time sex

Are you worried, are you still thinking about that day when you will give all you have to your man? Are you scared about the first encounter with your male partner for sex? Or you have just done it and lost your virginity? If this is all in your head you have to read this.

Loosing virginity is not a big issue, but yes when this happens then body will respond to this action. So here are few things that might happen if you have lost your virginity and you are regularly having sex post that.

Size of the Boobs:


Yes, girl, your boobs will turn bigger and firm. This happens when your hormones get activated or satisfied after sex. So now you will see a change in the size of your boobs. Don’t worry they won’t turn that big but yes bigger than before. A little more tempting and sexier! So get ready for attracting more attention from boys than before.

Sensitive Nipples:

After the touch during sex, your nipples are likely to turn more sensitive. This happens because after sex the blood flow in nipples is more and this causes sensitivity in that area. Which means your nipples turn harder easily now and when he is around you get goose bumps. So enjoy that feeling while you can!

Flexibility of the Vagina:


After sex, your vagina is more flexible. Repeated sex will make it more elastic and reduce the pain that you go through during intercourse. Vagina not only becomes flexible it also becomes more responsive to the touch of the Penis and hence lubrication improves. Once lubrication and flexibility improve, the pain gets replaced by the extreme pleasure. Vagina has got a great flexibility and it can get stretched upto 8 inches and hence stop worrying for his size and just care for his touch.


Yes, some girls do bleed after losing virginity. This can vary from person to person. So it might be because of a tear that happens inside the vagina. The hymen is just like a thin layer which gets broken and you may or may not bleed. The bleeding bit gets adjusted over the time and body naturally takes care of it most of the times unless there are some medical reasons involved for certain female body types.

Change in Periods Cycle:

For some females, there is a delay in periods and for some periods arrive early. It is true, sex has a positive side towards periods but first sex can lead a change in cycle. That may take your periods to better stage. And in some cases the periods get delayed or in some cases the periods arrive early. This is not a serious issue and you should not worry as much about it.

Glowing Skin:


Now, this is a natural gift for you, that your hormones are satisfied you tend to have a glow on your face. It will make you look pretty and attractive. You look confident and attract lot of eyeballs. It is not only biological bit also the practical that you get glow on your face after you start having sex. You put all your concerns, queries and anxiety about ‘first time sex’ to the rest and hence you feel relaxed and relieved. This relaxed and satisfied feeling makes you look even more attractive.

Emotional Changes:

After start having sex, you are more emotional, happier, sad and crazier than before. You have mood swings as you are undergoing some natural changes and the anxiety to explore more or to satisfy your partner might increase. And hence you tend to have changes in your emotions.

Just relax and give yourself some time and your mind and body will respond positively to this new and beautiful phase of having sex with your partner. God has created a beautiful YOU and you are blessed with very attractive and sensitive assets of the body. Live your life happily and enjoy the natural gifts the God has presented to you. Be happy, be healthy and more importantly be iChhori.

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Teenage Abortion: Sin? Crime? or Both?

Was it a sin or a crime or both or neither, I don’t know yet, but if I would not have done that then you would not even talk or sit with me today. I was only 18 and too young to understand what was happening in my life, I was too immature to take decisions. But all of a sudden, I got pregnant.  It’s been more than 10 years, I and my boyfriend have been together. Our relationship has always been strong and our love for each other grew every day. We started dating each other when we were in 11th class and love was all that I could think of at that time. I still remember that special day.  On my 18th birthday, he decorated the entire place for me and that was the most beautiful moment of my life. Candles, flowers, heart shaped balloons all were shinning in the room and so was our love. I had lied to my parents that day saying that I was with my best friend and spent the night with my boyfriend instead. In the heat of the moment, we got very close and took our love beyond all the social boundaries. Days later, I was supposed to get my periods, but I missed them. I was not sure about the period cycle so I waited for a week. After waiting for a week in vein, I shared the problem with my friend and she asked me to get a home test done. It was really tough for me to go to a medical shop and buy the pregnancy test kit. So I went to the chemist and asked him in low hesitant voice, ‘bhaiya ek pregnancy test kit dena pls.’

I rushed back home with the kit and went straight into the washroom. I took the kit out and read all the instructions carefully. As I saw the pink line making its mark, my stress level was at its peak. 1 line turned dark pink then the second line also appeared and I was sure I was pregnant. I cried deep in my heart. I knew if I kill this baby, I would kill our child and if not, then my family would kill me for ruining their trust in me. I called my boyfriend told him the shocking details. Just like me, he too was scared and confused. But one of my friends was aware of such situations and she helped me in getting the child aborted. I always heard my mom and other ladies saying that ‘abortion is a sin’ but if I would not have committed that sin would they have accepted me and my baby?


After 10 years of that incident, I and my boyfriend are married now and I am 4 months pregnant, BUT It’s not my first child because I KILLED my first child!

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